To E, who sent a care package and shared her talents
As soon as you heard of our son’s first — of a few — diagnoses, you sent a care package for my children. It included a picture book about having an autistic brother and sensory toys. It was the most thoughtful gift. We still read the book weekly, almost a year later. You were a new mother yourself, but took the time to think of what my children might need in this moment. And more recently, you used your valuable time to help me make the cutest awareness t-shirts.
To L, who has always been there
You are the friend whom I know would hop on an airplane and come see me if I ever needed you to. You are strong and set boundaries, but you’re the best friend anyone could ask for. I try hard not to use you as my personal therapist, so I hold back from asking for advice, but you give out wonderful affirmations and make me feel like all my feelings are okay and I’m safe with you no matter what.
To D, with the sweetest heart
Even though we aren’t far in distance, we don’t get to see each other as much as we used to. But you haven’t backed away from being an amazing friend. I want you to know that I see you and your strength, and I’m here for you as well. Thank you for always making sure my husband is okay; I am so happy to know that we both genuinely care for each other’s significant others. It’s a special bond and I’m glad to share it with you. Oh and did I mention you kept my daughter overnight when we had two kids in the hospital? Lifesaver.
To L, the Meme Queen
When you ask how things are going, I can tell you genuinely want to know and aren’t just making small talk. We share what’s going on with each other and our lives. I know I think about her frequently and hoping she’s well, and I feel she’s doing the same for me. And when either of us are perusing Instagram late at night to have “me time”, we send each other funny memes. It’s fun and light hearted and gives me a smile.
To N, who never fails to make me giggle
You can make me forget my worries and turn my mood around with a single word. We have so many funny jokes and memories, that a quick text with you can make me giggle for the rest of the day. To be with you is to feel lightheartedness and joy, which is so special. I can feel it even from thousands of miles away, and I love that you have that amazing quality.
To K, the kindred spirit
Have you ever had the blessing of becoming friends with your best friend’s best friend? You were my friend’s college friend, but quickly became a close friend to our whole group. I’ve always felt like a kindred spirit with you. You are one of the kindest, most accepting people and I appreciate that you’ve given me creative opportunities. It makes my day when I get to write an email to you.
To L, my helpful neighbor
I didn’t know what kind of relationship I’d have with my gorgeous neighbor when we moved here, but I’m so grateful to have lived next door to you. We don’t get much time together, but I see your kind heart and how you go out of the way to help others. I’ve loved getting to know your family and I’ll always be there for you when you need a cup of sugar or help with your kids, just like you have for me.
To E, who is forever thoughtful
Your life seems so exciting and adventurous, so I sometimes assume you’d be bored to hear about my domestic mom life. Yet you consistently check in and see what’s going on in your friends’ lives. It is really thoughtful and sweet, and I’m always looking forward to hear what you’ve been up to as well.
To L, who remembered my birthday
My husband and I tend not to celebrate ourselves much these days, but you have made me remember to be remembered on my birthday. I will never forget when your family got me a birthday cake when my husband worked overtime, and had me and the kids over for lunch and cake. Thank you for your friendship.
To C, who reminds me who is in charge
You are my most spiritual friend, and also the most incredible social planner. I know I haven’t been able to get together as much, but I want you to know that you are always in my heart. And your relationship to Jesus and how you serve your community helps me to remember to count my blessings and have faith, things of the utmost importance in life. Thank you for that leadership and steadfastness.
To all these women, and others that I didn’t mention, thank you and bless you all. I pray that our friendships continue to grow and that I can be the kind of friend to you and others that you have been to me. You all teach me so much and I miss each and every one of you. I know a season of life will come around again before long where we will get together more and play cards and take girl trips and giggle the day away and I WILL BE READY!